What do you think about Deans rection to bobby haunting them/ or hanging around? what if it was your family member?

Well, I have diffent views...
First off, I was surprised by Dean's reaction. Think about it, if Bobby had gone with the reaper, where would they be? Sam would still be in the mental hospital, or dead from lack of sleep, Cas would never have gotten his memory back
or reunited with the boys, and (this is still uncertain at the moment) the boys may not have been able to stop the Leviathans (Again this is speculation but I think this will be the case). So with all that known, I was shocked at Dean's reaction towards him, even though I understand at the same time that he wanted him to move on and not become an angry spirit. That's my views on that.