Do you think draco and harry would have ever been friends if it werent for the whole lord voldetmore thing??

No. Harry didn't like Draco before he knew Lucius was a Death Eater, and before Draco came one. Even without Voldemort, Draco would still be a spoiled little brat.

I think he did not want to be freinds with Draco becuse of the way he acts

I think if Lucius had been less prejudice and therefore a better role model for Draco, then Harry would have liked to be friends with Draco. But then he wouldnt be our blonde haired cowardly fiend; he'd be a completely different person...

No, because the Malfoys didn't like the Weasleys. Therefore, Draco never really liked Ron, and Ron was Harry's friend.